Wednesday, April 20, 2011


What does friend really mean to you?
just to keep you company when you want to eat?the one who is your roommate? or people who you go and back from class together?

I dont think many of us still dont get the real meaning of FRIEND . So,i'm here to explain the thing that really complicated based on my broad experiences(just joking)lol

I'm not a lecturer or phsychologist or whatever elite profession related, but just a friend and want to write something that i know.And i'd like to share it with my readers :)

First, let all of us be surprised at what a dictionary says about what a friend really is:
1. A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
2. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
3. A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.
4. One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.
5. Friend - A member of the Society of Friends; a Quaker.
How many people that seem to be close to us, are we able to really trust?  Even the closest of friends, that we have had friendships with, for decades, have secrets hidden from us, that many are afraid to admit, because they know that they will loose contact with us, should be those secrets be revealed.

 I once have a friend, a really good friend but I think it turned out to be enemy(not really) right now. We didn't talk for a long time, dont text each other, dont call, and we kinda lost contact. I don't know where the mistake is?who should i blame?me or her? And it's happened due to some kind of big problem.not necessarily to mention it here.

I dont want to exaggerate or talk more about this, probably she'll read this too :|

But, basically what I can say here is everybody have their own word to define FRIEND
Some will define it on their own way of life, thinking.
Some may define it through their own perspective, it's free.No limitation.

But here,lemme give my own definition, what i think based on my observation,experience and other things related, i can say that friend is someone or something (not necessarily people )that really close and maybe with or without any blood relationship.They're the one we believe and put enough trust to tell something, share something, whether it's a big or small things.Happy or Sad things.Doesn't matter.
The one that will make us feel so relief.and really comfortable to be with.The one that available for us most of the time, ready to hear our problems, willing to help us without expecting any reward.

That's what friend really is :)

But dont get it wrong, sometimes people tend to define bestfriend as
Yeah, they always be seen together.Eat together, go to class together, people may get it wrongly..haha.Typical people.But it doesn't matter, gay pom gay long we don't do anything that trouble others :D

Thanks for reading :)

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